Queer Relational Therapy

liberation-oriented therapy for QTs

Let's get you free.

You're tired of putting everyone else first, feeling drained and resentful, and wishing shit wasn't so hard. Life under late-stage capitalism is brutal, and living in the belly of the beast is a special kind of spiritual torture. You're feeling isolated and depressed living in a genocidal, white supremacist culture and wanting to dream of something different, but don't know where to start.  


Meanwhile, you're seeing TikTok creators talk about the importance of boundaries and self-love and breaking the cycles of intergenerational trauma, and you can't imagine where to begin.  


Can you really believe that you deserve to be happy in this hellscape? 


...Yes!  You deserve to be happy, and feel fulfilled and free. 


Let me introduce you to the parts of you that can help you get there. <3 

approach

  • gentle, curious, and understanding
  • trauma and IFS informed
  • guided inner child healing ("parts work")

clients

  • cross-cultural + queer partners
  • neurodivergent folks
  • radicals, organizers, artists, and anarchists

I'M RYN they/them

(pronounced "rin")

I am excited about us getting to feel more whole

We're not helping ourselves, or the earth, or the people we're in community with if we're shutting down and disowning parts of ourselves. We learn quite early to value some and shut down other aspects of ourselves, and the oppressive, dominating, greed-driven forces of our world traumatize us so that we can no longer access or recognize vital parts of ourselves. And its messed up that it's even our job to take care of ourselves in the first place - that we have to heal from things that aren't even our fault. But we do - or at least, we can. It is possible.

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